The One I Love

Love is a strange thing. When you have the feeling of love for somebody you really want to tell them about it.

I really want to be the one you love,
I really want to be the stardust in your eyes,
When you dream at night,

I really want to be the one you call,
Anytime that you need someone to care,
Someone you can depend on to be there.

Let me be the one …

I Really want to be so close to you,
Like eternal souls that never part,
Occupy each others heart,

I really want to be your number one,
I really want to be the one you talk about,
The one that you just cannot live without,

Forever more …
I really want be,

The one – always for you,
The one – who adores you,
I need you more than the earth needs the sun …

I really want to be, I really want to be,
I really want to be, I really want to be the one …

To hold you, The one, to show you,
That when you’re down and out and,
You need a friend ….

I Really want to be the one you trust,
With every little secret that you’ve had,
The happy and the sad,

I really want to be the one you need,
Somebody that would kiss your tears away,
The one that will understand and stay,
Until you smile, I really want to be

The one, thinking of you,
The one, who loves you,…

You’re everything to me and second to none,
I really want to be, I really want to be,
The one

Copyright Gary Bryan December, 2022
Gary Bryan Songs

It’s a well-known tale: After meeting someone, you experience butterflies and begin to think about the future, whether it be Friday’s supper or the proposal the next year. You think you’re falling in love, but are you really?

No matter how strong the feeling, it can be challenging to determine whether it is based in something substantial or is more ephemeral. After all, a lot of things can appear and feel romantic. for instance, lust. or a crush. or a poisonous love attack. And even if something appears to be Love in its purest form, that doesn’t necessarily imply it is. You might be able to recall a time when you were certain you were falling hard and then changed your mind after witnessing them, say, acting rudely toward a waitress.

While the duration of falling in love isn’t known, the experts we spoke to concur that getting to know someone is an important step in experiencing intense sentiments. Early on in a relationship, you could feel as though you’re in love (think back to middle school crushes), but knowing someone better is what separates infatuation from love, says Megan Fleming, PhD, a clinical psychologist and sex and couples therapist in New York City. When you’re just infatuated, “it’s a projection because you haven’t learnt anything about them yet,” the author is implying. Effectively, you are painting this person—a wonderful but still largely empty canvas—with all the things you hope are real.

 

When you’re in love, though, your feelings are usually motivated by a strong bond and a set of shared principles, which calls for at the very least a basic comprehension of the other person. You can tell what kind of person they are: cautious or courageous, extroverted or reserved, cool-headed or excitable. Their responses are generally predictable, and you can count on them to always be who they are.